I would hate to have a controlling significant other. The ones who get overly and strictly protective, the ones that practically try to control the other’s life. It’s okay to care and want your significant other to yourself, but taking it to the extreme? “Commitment” is what you may want to call it, but if that’s the case “Trust” values a lot in a relationship too. If you know that person can’t commit to you and you can’t trust them then why get into a relationship in the first place? You should be able to trust them, and let them do whatever they want to do with certain limits not some rules that their parents would lecture about. You’re their boyfriend/girlfriend not their mom/dad. The past may make you what you ought to be now, but the past is the past. You can’t compare your ex or anyone to who you have now, because that’s what will hold you back and it’s all about moving forward not rewinding in a relationship.

(Source: pharinaababe)